dump the debt (Photo credit: Friends of the Earth International)
This is a series I wrote back in 2009 when this blog was on Blogspot.com. I think it is as relevant as it was back then, if not more so now given the times we are living in.
I’m gonna start off by saying that getting out debt is not easy and not for the faint of heart. It can be compared to eating healthier, dreadlocking your hair or even wearing your hair out in its natural state. Though it may be a bit more accepted now, it’s still a long hard journey that takes loads of patience and thick skin. Why is that you ask? All go against the grain and many times the biggest opponents to your success will be your family and friends. I mention this because how well you can ignore their ignorance while keeping your eye on the prize is crucial to getting where you want to go. In addition to that, it’s a permanent lifestyle change, otherwise you’ll be right back where you started.
#1. IMHO, stop believing that stupid saying that’s been going around for decades that there is good debt and bad debt. I don’t think “bad debt” needs explanation however “good debt”, is paid off debt. End of story.
One of the keys to getting out of debt and staying out is to become conscious of what you are spending your money on starting TODAY!! Yes I’m shouting a bit but I’m trying to make the point that it is extremely important aside from point #1. Examine everything because if you are in credit card debt, more than likely there has been some unconscious spending going on! Many people have absolutely no idea how much they are living on vs what they actually bring home to pay the bills. Also a crystal clear distinction between needs and wants must be made. You may need a purse but you come home with a Coach or (whatever the designer names are) bag. No problem if you are financially OK, but big problem when you’ve got mountains of debt, doing these kinds of things for a long time, zero savings and the boss tells you that you’ll be out of a job in 2 weeks. Can’t quite live in or eat that Coach bag…can you?
Here are some everyday examples. Do you really need a cell phone and a land-line phone? Do you really need 25 calling features and voice mail on your land-line phone? I know it sounds like I’m fussing but I think I can do that because that was me at the time. lol Unless you are using every one of the features and making a lot of long distance calls, many times these so-called bundles are not saving you any money. In reality, they’re costing you more. Even if you are using ALL of the features and making a gazillion phone calls, there’s probably a cheaper way. As for voice mail, get an answering machine. That feature alone is approx $7 a month as part of that “package” so in a year you’ve paid $84. Keep the service for 5 years and you’ve paid $420. Now I know you can get an answering machine for way less that $84 and even on the rare chance you had to by a new one every year, you’ll still come out way cheaper and have $50+ dollars to put on that 20% interest credit card debt. Heck for that matter, in the case of long distance, use email more or **gasp** snail mail. It’s the drips like this when looked at individually, don’t look like much but when applied across the board begin to become cracks in the dam in terms of the money being used here and not being available for debt repayment. The only folks getting rich off interest are the bankers.
Another way I’ve let money slide through the cracks was not paying attention to the price per unit of whatever it is I was buying. Not to mention the health aspect but that’s another post. For example, I was eating ice cream at that time so I would get the
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half-gallon of vanilla for $2.50. Looking elsewhere, I found a 5 quart container for $4.00. Now what most people do is look at the price of $4.00 vs $2.50 and immediately choose the half-gallon for $2.50. This can be applied for anything you are consuming on a regular basis. Before I got hip to pricing, I purchased more ice cream next week getting another half-gallon for $2.50. OK, so after 2 purchases, I’ve spent $5.00 for one gallon of ice cream. Now I’m sure y’all remember that 4 quarts is 1 gallon right? Go up just a bit in this paragraph and see how much ice cream I got for $4.00. 5 quarts. Without doing any more calculations you can see that I jipped myself out of a quart of ice cream. Not only that, I paid more for less ice cream! Now these were 2002 prices that I’m noting here so you know as I know, it’s gone up a whole lot more since. I bring this up to point out a practice that’s been going on for quite a while. But you gotta admit, the ice cream in the photo looks really good! 🙂 OK…back on topic.
I’m referring to how corporations are raising their prices and/or leaving the price the same but making not so readily noticeable changes in the amount of product. It boils down to what is still a price increase. They are counting on is you not paying attention. Think I’m kidding…here’s another one for ya. A pack of cookies, (it should be obvious by now that I love sweets lol) used to have 4 big cookies in it and cost $1.00. So that works out to be $.25 per cookie. Now, the company decides to change the packaging, tell you it’s space saving, bigger cookies or whatever jive talk that are spittin’ out and only put 2 cookies in there but leave the price the same at $1.00. Now each cookie costs $.50 each. That’s a 50% price increase!! In many cases using this same example, they’ve not only reduced the amount to 2 cookies, they’ve raised the price to $1.10. That’s an even bigger price increase. Many times it’s not quite as glaringly obvious as the last example but it’s there nonetheless.
So folks, ya gotta start becoming conscious and paying attention to where ya money is going. I’ve focused on this first because it’s the fastest and most efficient way to get more money freed up to have to accelerate debt elimination. What I came to find out was that I got more motivated to look for more ways to slash my budget so I did not have to go out and get a second job.
A few books that I used as road-maps on this journey were:
1)”Debt Proof Living” by Mary Hunt. She has a website of the same name as the book that is a paid subscription site which is quite reasonable at the time I had one. The non-subscription part of the site was nice. 
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2)”Your Money Or Your Life” by Joe Dominguez & Vicki Robin
See if your local library has them first. Then if you like them, you can look for used copies or again, examine the details and see if buying them new will come out cheaper. With Amazon.com, if your purchase price is $25 or more you can get shipping free. I’ll talk more about these books and others later.
Are you ready for more? I hope so! Then on to part 2.
Disclaimer: All of the products mentioned in this post have been purchased by me or borrowed from the public library. I have no affiliation with the producer/manufacturer or distributor of the product nor am I being paid to review the product mentioned. The opinions set forth in this post are solely my personal opinion.
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thanks msfullroller! i am so excited & definitely inspired! can't wait to read more…
No kidding, I was just thinking of ways to cut back on unnessary things and really put down a budget and follow it. This is soo welcomed to me. Thanks. Can't wait for the pt 2 and so forth.
Thank-you great tips, I've also started taking an active role by putting at least 10% of my paycheck in my savings before I do anything else with it.
Girl am with you on that score…being doing this thing for years! Especially if you've got kids. The problem is when family come over I feel like a money pincher! I just explain the situation and after spending a few days in this country (UK) they start complaining how everything is soooo expensive!I stay quite and let them digest the reasons why I do things the way i do!
I'm listening sis! Today I called and had my home phone cut off. I'm feeling empowered! I paid off my only credit card in February. Now other than my utilities, my only bill is my car payment. And I can't wait to be finished with that! I've even cut back on the a/c. Now in the winter, I love cold weather so I barely, rarely use the central heat. I always save on my bill in the winter. So this time I'm going to take the savings and up them in a nest egg. MsFullroller, you rock!
@ Laloced, Great going Sis!! I'm gonna talk about savings in a future post. Very important nowadays. @ Nubian, I hear ya sis and keep on being that money pincher! Yep, they'll get it, hopefully sooner than later. What's that saying "I can show ya betta than I can tell ya" lol@ Kumina, You have made my day in that YOU feel empowered. Now that's what I'm talking about!!! You're gonna have to do a rap like Tracema when you pay your car off. lol
No kidding, I was just thinking of ways to cut back on unnessary things and really put down a budget and follow it. This is soo welcomed to me. Thanks. Can't wait for the pt 2 and so forth.
thanks msfullroller! i am so excited & definitely inspired! can't wait to read more…
Great post! I subscribe to the same belief. I haven’t had a land phone line for years. I find my cell phone takes care of all my needs–long distance, voice mail, call log. I haven’t owned a credit card in yearssss. I learned the hard way. You always want to believe that you’ll be able to pay your credit company back in full at the end of the month (every month), but it rarely works out that way. Because if you have to use a credit card to buy it, you probably can’t afford it. There are times I think of getting a credit card again for emergencies. But in the end i know I’d start stretching the meaning of “emergency”. 😉
Thanks! I’ve not got a cell phone yet since the land-line was relatively cheap but lately I’ve considered it.
It helps to know thyself regarding the use of credit cards. I still use one credit card, making sure that I always pay off the entire balance before the due date arrives. My card offers cash back after so many points earned and that cash back paid for my camera along with stuff for craft projects. I’ve made a vow to never let myself back in that black hole again. I’ve not paid one penny in interest since paying off my cards 8 years ago. So, this makes me according to the credit industry a “deadbeat” and as far as I’m concerned…that’s quite alright. 🙂
Wow, you’re my idol…8 years. The temptation would be too much for me. Got no problem admitting: I’ve very little self-control when it comes to “free” money and my tastes are too expensive for my pocket. Put together–a recipe for destruction. 😉 Great job!!!
Aww, thanks. You are way ahead of most in that you know yourself at such a young age. I admire you for that as I’m still learning who I am at almost 46 years of age.
Hey! I reblogged this post on a blogspot by copying and pasting. Unfortunately, I haven’t found yet a button that connects wordpress to blogspot. Frustrating. There’s a button for Twitter and Tumblr. I don’t get it. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know. If you don’t want this, please tell me and it’d be no problem to remove your post. Thanks! Hope you’ve been having a great week! 🙂
As long as you’ve credited me as the author and linked the article back to my blog, which I’m sure you did, I don’t mind at all. You have a Blogspot blog in addition to the one here at WordPress?
Yah, crazy right??? 🙂 I just started it. I like this blog concept. And Blogspot gave me a better look than WordPress for my simplicity theme. I actually like looking at it. Hahaha!!!
Here’s the url for your article: http://oceangrins.blogspot.com/2012/02/how-i-got-outta-debt-resources-i-used.html. Thanks for allowing me to post it. I definitely credited you and put in 2 links: one for this post and one for your Debt-free series page. If you ever have any problems, please just drop me a note and I’d be happy to fix it.
Haha, not at all unless of course we are both crazy! 🙂 It’s a bit ironic that you are going to Blogger from WordPress and I just came from Blogger to WordPress for somewhat the same reason of getting a better look for the blog.
Just came from your site and I love it! I will be following there just in case you decide to close up shop here. Thanks again for posting another one of my articles. It’s an honor to be a guest poster. That’s what it feels like anyway. lol
Lol!!! My pleasure!!! It’s an honor to have such great work on my blog. You have a wonderful voice and it should be heard.
I don’t think I will be getting rid of my wordpress blogs. I have a lot of ideas that don’t always fit within the same crowd. Like someone can practice simplicity but not mysticism. My spiritual beliefs alone would scare a lot of people away. hahaha!!!
Also, now that I’ve done Blogger, I like more how WordPress works behind-the-scenes when it comes to stats, comments, and access to other blogs. Oh well… I still like the look. Beauty over functionality. hahaha! 🙂 Happy Friday!!!
Thank you! That’s a great way of putting it..behind the scenes workings and I’m loving it too! Happy Saturday!!! 🙂
Tracking money is hard for me. It’s easier to pretend there’s no problem if I don’t count everything too closely.
I do know, however, that I spend a ridiculous amount of money of food. I’m lazy so I don’t cook much. Plus I live within walking distance to a bazillion fast food places.
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I know the feeling. Now that I’m out of debt, I really don’t track my money anywhere close as when I was in debt. However, I do still compare prices ‘cuz I don’t like knowing that I could have got more for my money and the additional funds could have gone on what I want to buy.
Sis I hear ya as I’m not much of a cooker either. Not because I’m lazy which I am lol, but I don’t like to cook. So I do very simple stuff and the convenience stuff from the store to stretch the fast food spending.